


July was a very busy month that included lots of first for us. We spent a week at Ocean Lakes Campground in Myrtle Beach, had the county swim championship, baseball camp, football practice and celebrated E’s birthday! August is just as busy and adventurous as I will be out of town for half the month and then start back to work on the 17th! This summer has been an adventure to say the least! I have enjoyed most of it but as always it was too quick! One big change this year is I will not be participating in the Every Bit counts challenge in August. I have however been working on getting our food storage up to the level that I needed for the school year. One small hiccup was that one of our deep freezers stopped working. It is now going to be a storage place for chicken food and bedding.
Groceries- Goal $800 per month. We spent $1275.26 for the month of July. I am not surprised at this as we have been enjoying special treats aka lots of ice cream and working on getting food prepared ahead.
Gas- Goal is $400. Total spent was $552.61 for gas this month. This included taking both vehicles to the beach so I am not surprised.
Blogging-The goal will be 15 posts per month. This is post 11 for me. This is always a struggle when we are out of town.
Debit- The goal for 2026 will be to pay off the Home Depot Credit card without interest. The first large payment has been made! The second large payment is due mid September! I have been able to find some lost money this summer so that has been useful as we continue to focus on enjoying life and working on financial stability at the same time.
No Spend Days- Goal for 10 no spend days a month. Not even going to suggest that I have a clue about this. Nope not even on the clue on this one as we are in the summer and enjoying it! This will become more of a focus once we are back into a regular routine.
Health/Exercise-I am no hanging out between 171 and 175. I was finally able to get a shot in my knee but am faced with the reality that I need to have a knee replacement in the future probably less than 5 years. I was able to reduce my blood pressure medicine this summer. Slow and steady is usually a good thing.
Foster Care- Matt and I completed everything needed for our application on March 31, the actual application was not submitted until May 5 or 6th as of last Wednesday May 27th, we have been approved as licensed foster parents in the state of North Carolina. We began receiving our stipend mid July. Unfortunately this will again be reduced to help cover after school care for the school year. I am so frustrated but what can I do? Our next court date is set for October 20th. This will be a very interesting court date as things should actually change officially during this time.
I am going to include my weekly update of Summer Goals here as well. It just makes sense. Opps as I read this I realized that I have not been keeping up with the weekly update. This is where we stand at the end of July.
1. Make and order 8 photo books. We have received 2 books. I have uploaded pictures on multiple occasions and had really intended on doing a third book today but I am exhausted so I doubt that happens.
2. Read a total of 8 books. I have finished five books this summer! Not perfect but better than 1.
3. Make and freeze 12 baked ziti’s- Goal Met! July 2026
4. Make and freeze 6 million dollar spaghetti pies This has been very limited so far. I have added 10 jars of spaghetti sauce to the pantry. I doubt this is going to happen.
5. Make and freeze 6 pans of chicken enchiladas. Goal met 6/19/2026.
6. Either walk or exercise 3 times a week for at least 8 weeks. This has been significantly limited due to knee pain.
7. Make and freeze 6 taco pastas. goal met 6/19/2026
8. Make and freeze 6 chicken, broccoli rice casseroles. 6/19/2026
9. Make at least 50 meatballs and freeze. I did not get around to the meatball however I currently have 78 prepared meals in the freezer or canning pantry in addition to the 10 jars of spaghetti sauce that is canned!
Kendall’s is all but finished… she still needs to hang some ears.


Zach’s new room is in progress

E’s new room has not even been started!

Why is everything breaking especially in the middle of summer when I don’t get a paycheck and especially right around vacation.
Here are more of the details… first up the insta pot. This was actually not a big deal for me. This was actually a hand me down from my daughter. I just have not had good success with using these. I did enjoy making boiled eggs and rice in the pot but the last straw was the second batch of rice that burned for no reason and the eggs that were cooked dry before it ended. I threw it away with no thought. This actually happened three days before our vacation.
The second hit was much harder and I will admit made me cry! Zach was mowing the yard in a rush and called to tell me the lawn mower was smoking. I told him to let it sit in dry grass as this was not the first time it has acted this way. Unfortunately, when he went to crank it again, it would not even start. I told him to push it to the end of the year. We were fortunate enough to borrow the neighbor. Based on history and the age of the mower (more than 10 years) we decided to find and order a new lawn mower during our vacation. It arrived on Monday! And the bright spot is I sold the broken one for $100 on Facebook.
We actually made it to vacation before the next thing broke. We own our camper and there is a true statement that says something breaks every single time you take it out. Fortunately it was only the clasp of the screen door for this trip but $15 is still an expense.
We arrived home on Sunday to discover that our oldest freezer had reached a temperature of 41*. This meant that it had actually stopped working. It was a mad dash to try an save as much as possible. We ended up losing about 1/4 of what was in the freezer as it was completely unthaw. A great benefit was that it was not full! So the loss was minimal but still is a huge loss. We are still in the process of deciding if we want to replace this freezer. It is a third freezer so I am not sure that is an necessary expense right now or even in the future.
Last but certainly not least on Monday, after the first batch of spaghetti sauce, my large crockpot died. It just literally stopped heating! I had purchased one several years ago and just was using the liner from the new one so I was able to go out to the building and get the new crockpot to use.
This all are definitely first world problems but in reality it is frustrating and combined with all the changes we are going through with Lily moving and the tragic loss of two friends this past week. It feels like we just cant get a break!
Who likes change? Not many people can say the truly enjoy when things change. As I have gotten older, I do realize that I tolerate change a little better than some but I still don’t like change. Here is where the problem arises, over the next few weeks, the last few weeks of summer, lots of changes are happening!
The bright side of all this change is that we are not forced to complete it all at once in just a couple of days. Kendall will move into Lily’s room first including moving her ears and tv. Then Zach will have to paint and patch the walls of Kendall’s old bedroom. He also is request a new fan. Finally we will need to purchase install and arrange the furniture the final bedroom for E. This will also gain ALOT of our privacy back because we will have a master bedroom suite again!
My current plan is to show you as the changes happen! But change will be slow as E and I will be out of town for 13 days in August!

Today is Monday and I attempt to post a menu plan most Mondays. However this week we have VBS at church and are provided dinner every evening. A whole week of not having to decide what is for dinner is so heavenly! The focus for lunches this week will be to clean out the refrigerator. With the traveling I will be doing in the next couple of weeks, I like to not come home to science experiments. I decided this would be a good time to update on my Summer goals.

I am officially half way finished with my summer break. I have 5 weeks left until I return to work full time. The exciting part is that I am actually going to be out of town for three of those five weeks. Another “change” is that next week, our church will provide dinner each night as part as VBS. I will likely cook some type of lunch but maybe night just depends on the mood I am in. I really want to get at least half of my summer goals completed this week but I am not even sure if that is possible. I have to keep reminding myself that some progress is better than no progress.
Breakfast- Saturday- Matt and I worked on getting 12 batches of biscuits in the freezer. I also made some homemade gravy to go with our biscuits that morning. Sunday-I had cereal. Monday- Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday– find it (oatmeal, omelets, cereal and milk, sausage, pop-tarts ,cereal bars, pancakes and eggs). We also have some French toast and Dutch boy pancakes in the freezer.
Lunch- Saturday- Gyros. Sunday Olive Garden for Kendall’s birthday. Monday- Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday- I want to keep on top of the left-overs but sandwiches are always a choice as well. We also have some left-over pizza that needs to be eaten as well.
Dinner- Saturday- left-over pizza Sunday- left-over pizza Monday-French Dip sandwiches Tuesday- Pasta Salad Wednesday- Honey Garlic Chicken Thursday- Hot Dogs at the member appreciation day at the pool. Friday- Spaghetti and meatballs.